Good news, I have a new full time freelance job!
Bad news, I don't have time to spend on this non-profit blog!
Please reach out to a friend (not family member) and get the venting out of your system - it is important. Make sure your husband is shouldering his fair share of the burden - it is HIS mother after all! I also recommend you read the book "Toxic In-Laws."
Sending best wishes during this brief hiatus,
Admin at Best Mother-In-Law